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Ambiguity Aversion - Are You Afraid to Read This?

by Patricia Mayo

Of course you’re not. What, you - afraid to read a blog post? Pshaw. No way. Couldn’t happen.

Overcoming ambiguity aversion
Photo by Sophie

Yet if I had titled this “Ambiguity Aversion” and just left it at that, I bet you wouldn’t be reading this right now. That’s because of a hard-wired fact of humanity - we’re fully-trained trained skeptics of anything unfamiliar.

And I’m willing to bet that if I didn’t tell you I’m about to detail how to overcome ambiguity aversion to increase any metric, you probably wouldn’t read beyond this point. But since I just did - well, let’s move on, shall we? [Read the rest of this entry…]



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May 14, 2008 - Humpday Quotables, 5/14, Comment on this

"The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say." Anais Nin

"Substitute 'damn' every time you're inclined to write 'very;' your editor will delete it and the writing will be just as it should be." Mark Twain


May 7, 2008 - Humpday Quotables, 5/7, Comment on this

"Writers, like teeth, are divided into incisors and grinders." Walter Bagehot

"I have made this longer because I have not had the time to make it shorter." Blaise Pascal


May 6, 2008 - Give 'em Something to Talk About, Comment on this

Layering even boring statements in catch phrases from pop culture grabs a lot more attention than even a great point could have otherwise. The key is giving people something they can click with and relate to in your writing.


Foolproof Self-Improvement, and a Challenge

by Patricia Mayo

Did you notice something strange in the last few entries? There’s columns and microposts and strange pictures - oh my!

Dig in and pull out your future better self.
Photo by Bart

Over the last couple days I have broken my blog more times than I can count - all in the name of improving my writing style. Of course, it helps that it all looks neat and fancy too.

Really I’m just trying to forcibly train myself. Some people write long paragraphs - I write long sentences. Sure it may not seem like a bad habit. However, I believe if you’re not moving forward, you’re moving backward. [Read the rest of this entry…]

May 5, 2008 - Just Say It!, Comment on this

"Effective leaders have the courage to say what they're thinking - and that usually turns out to be what everyone else is thinking." - William Isaacs, author of Dialogue and the Art of Thinking Together


- Eastern Proverb, Comment on this

"At the first gate the gatekeeper asks, Is it true? At the second gate, he asks, Is it necessary? And at the third gate, Is it kind?" Make sure every word passes all three gates before you speak them.


May 4, 2008 - Save The Best for Last, Comment on this

Headlines are the most important part of your post. Write it last. At worst, write something temporary to help you stay on topic, and then go back and really fix it up before you hit publish.


“Problogging” Reality Check

by Patricia Mayo

It is possible to make money blogging - but it doesn’t happen the most obvious way.


Photo by Jay Lopez

I actually make a good chunk of my income blogging.

However, if you look in my sidebars, I don’t have ads. Not a single one. No sponsors, no donate buttons, no Entrecard. This site isn’t in any kind of traffic rotator schemes. I did an affiliate promotion once, but the results were so crappy you’re not going to see that again.

This is all very much on purpose - because the concept of “problogging” does not work if all you have to offer are your words on one blog. [Read the rest of this entry…]